Short Fingered
Five Fingers - Marriage Made Easy
I had lost my parents early. As a result of his disappearance, I always had to work twice to meet my emotional needs of other relationships. In the process, I learned how valuable the word "relationship" is and how it helps a exist and excel in life.
That is why, when a leading Indian matrimonial sites came up to me to improve the creative components of the site, I became really optimistic about the scope of work with them. In fact, it took only 5 minutes to give my assent positive.
In addition to the compulsory service game decision and the solution, the portal also has an advisory cell. When are site members with pre-and post-marriage psycho solution to help People in the mind stable marital relationships.
What follows is an article that I created for the portal, making it easier to convey the nuances of a marriage () the relationship in the most simplistic.
I have used "five fingers" as a metaphor to describe the different stages or phases of a marriage or knot marriage because a marriage of the hand is very symbolic and those are just the fingers that help one expects nothing.
I have given the title of "Five Fingers - Marriage easy "to the article and I hope you enjoy it.
First Phase of the finger - the pinky
This phase is the period pre-marital sex. Just as love, courtship, negotiation, etc take place. At this stage, the mind or the emotional balance is maintained in a very dubious, hesitant, tender and delicate stage. A drop of a hat, apparently the anger, frustration, disbelief, and so settle in the nose, which implies evasion, the dissonance or may be even a break up early.
Therefore, open communication, full transparency, the submission of original or true self, etc are some of the factors ... essential in this phase. If not done at this stage then in the later stages it is very possible that things will turn ugly and bitter to the point irreparable and harmful.
The major gap that usually occurs at this stage is a pair tests or efforts to impress the other hand, mostly by hiding of truth. This is dangerous, since once the sweetener is down ... love or emotion tastes like quinine pill.
Phase second toe - by Ring
This phase is the honeymoon period of a marital relationship. At this stage, everything is hunky-dory and euphoric, and life seems to be nothing more than a utopia.
Unfortunately, over 90% of cases, this phase is superimposed on a fast speed.
At this stage, sex, promise, commitment, dedication, etc are the main factors are the key.
The main weakness at this stage is the constant of pink eye glasses. So getting too bogged down in the activities of short-sighted, as there's no tomorrow. And when morning comes with all its twists and turbulent eddies, caramel partners succumb to a future very unfortunate and without hope, calling his lack of vision and the steps planned destination or (bad) luck.
Phase Three Finger - by the middle finger
This phase in a marriage is indeed very critical and painful too. At this stage, both partners begin to care a damn for the other. One of the middle finger is always up for his brother / best half. Therefore, this phase may also be referred to as "phase or f *** FYI."
In reality, the ego-inflated, false pride, professional pressure, lies unnecessary matrix ex-interest and exploration, unwanted intrusion family, social, etc are factors evil usually do the killing in love and emotion in this phase.
Steel character, high degree of patience, perseverance, self-acceptance and the brutal honesty spices are much needed at this stage to save marriage plate turning soft here.
Possible errors in this phase is driven by the suggestion of others, allowing one's mind to stop functioning, over react, taking self-pity, seeking short-term solutions to problems hand without addressing or looking at the heart of the problems, etc.
Phase fourth finger - index finger
This phase is the saddest, the worst and saddest stage that can happen to any marriage. At this stage, both partners become enemies just with each other. From his actions and reactions activities and attitude, it seems like they have never met each other and be really happy if the other dies, immediately and without compunction.
At this stage, entering or ie fall into shame, blame game of pointing the finger of the other is so common that it often feels marriage is nothing but the greatest miscarriage of emotions and feelings.
But in fact not the case. To save the marriage at this stage, or to protect and to protect the socio hostile factors really come handy here are dignified silence, suitable for adults and interactions, giving ample space, ignoring the temptations or provocations minors, and maintaining good mental reading and physical health with the help of music, introspection, knowledge sharing, exercise and meditation.
The loophole - which also can be marked as "mouth" in this particular phase - is to fall into the mud-filled gutter or in the quicksand, with an unhealthy ambition, atrocious and inhuman killing oneself or the partner.
And frankly, this type of mental disorder or insanity in the thinking process of not more than against any kind of humanism or humanity, so that only deserving condemnation and rebuke.
Fifth Phase of the finger - at Thumb
This phase is the most satisfying, rewarding and happy stage that you can enjoy the least concerned at all in their marriage.
At this stage, all negative emotions or become diminished or evaporated forever. Only then the maturity is imposed, and the real meaning of the surfaces of company under the full moon of love care, love, concern and all other self-less and very positive thoughts and emotions.
[If you are an Indian and / or understand Hindi, by please refer to the song "Tere Bina Zindagi shikwa to nahi koi themselves ..." of the film "Andhi" to refer to this phase as anything.]
The key factors at this stage are self-actulisation, gaining maturity, temperament and how to protect chewing with words, and understanding of the fact that love is the strength but of weakness and, last but not least, compatibility is a skill "feasible" that never comes to art in a tray pure magic. However, this ability can be improved only when both partners understand and realize that not more than two separate identities and have become a "Integrated or identity of" covenant for life.
Only reason I would like to decipher the word compatibility as "the ability to act achieve, achieve, and upgrade from a compact unit together. "
The main obstacle at this stage feel bad or regret in time, energy, emotion and money lost in the third stage and fourth stage. It is not necessary at all. Rather, at this stage one must embrace and enjoy the treasures of happiness and the joy of being together - that has never been so rewarding at any stage in their marriage.
PS:
In the case, are also undergoing some disorder in the matrix-related, do not hesitate to visit a good counselor for help. Get psychological help does not mean that you are a patient or psycho-crazy. So open your mind before you open your eyes ... to see and foresee the actual sun of happiness, every day!
About the Author
I am an Independent Creative Consultant dealing with Advertising, Direct Marketing, Viral, Digital & Interactive Communications, et al. To get in touch with me, you can shoot your email at rana12feb@gmail.com. You can also visit my blog www.kidntramp.blogspot.com or www.itsyounique.blogspot.com, in case you are game to relate to a different philosophy of life and wish to achieve the power of expression rather uniquely.
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